The phenomenon of domestic violence almost every day of issue and present it in the newspapers, television, and radio. Then the question why this could happen so easily?
Is this due to the development of modern and sophisticated times or a warning to humans that these are signs of the end times? Many factors make domestic violence, and you should avoid this from happening in your family. Here are some factors.
1. Speak loud and painful
This behavior is very important and absolutely must be avoided against all family members. Speaking loud and loud will make the listener hurt otherwise by speaking polite will make your interlocutors become sympathetic. Thus it will avoid the misunderstandings that make a strife in your family.
The next factor is impatience, because that is the benchmark in which you take action. In family life must not be separated from mistakes. If you find in your family making a mistake do not occasionally sentence him. Give the person the opportunity to speak to convey his argument. Then give advice or advice with a polite and wise tone so as not to repeat the same mistake.
3. The nature of the ego
The nature of egoism will only encourage your heart to become violent then arrogant and arbitrary behavior arises against others. Keep those traits from your life. Because if the nature of egoism continues to nestle and settle in the hearts of people over time will emerge the types of liver diseases, among others, stubbornness difficult to accept the advice of others, jealousy, revenge, and so forth. Keep those traits from your life.
One of the occurrences of domestic violence is the economic factor that is not well established, in the sense that household life is still unstable. So with such circumstances there will be various disputes in your household every day because the demands of your spouse or of your child are not met. So before you live married life should prepare your financial ability to be able to meet the needs of a decent life.
5. Looking for a scapegoat
When you get into big trouble in a job that makes a chaotic mind, do not ever vent into the house because the family members do not know anything. Solve problems in your work and do not jumble into the family. It would be nice if you discuss, maybe your partner has a way out about your problem.
6. There is no democratic culture in the household
In the family, the husband has the duty to be the head of the family but not all things done is true. If the husband is wrong in delivering or doing something, as a wife do not hesitate to justify. Vice versa if the wife is wrong to do something, the obligation of the husband to lead to the right path. With a gentle speech it will be easily accepted by the couple and not to make hurt.
7. Less open in the family
Less open is one of the things that can make the harmony of married life. If you have an outside problem, do not think about it yourself, it will make your load bigger. Communicating about problems received to your partner and finding solutions together will alleviate the burden of your problem.
8. Go out of the house for no reason
In this case many examples are done by children who are growing up and still unstable. As a parent, you should be stricter in keeping and watching over your sons and daughters when going out of the house. By giving negative and positive directions outside the home, your sons and daughters will think and stay away from the negative things that you forbid.
Prejudice against the couple will create a sense of discomfort in the household. This nature will make the mistrust of all things done couple. Being well minded towards your spouse will foster mutual trust in married life and this will add harmony in the family.